Chopper,
I’m 45, my son is 11, and I also have a 9 year old daughter who yoyos when the mood strikes.
A2Z has yoyo school on Tuesday, Friday and Saturday from 4:30 to 5:30. The teachers at A2Z are very good at breaking the tricks down and helping kids & adults learn. There is also Dogbite YoYo club at EastWorks in Easthampton, MA the 3rd Friday of the month from 7-9pm.
I haven’t found any organized clubs in CT yet, and have been a bit lazy in trying to start one.
Where in CT are you located? I recommend at least one trip to A2Z or Dogbite, as they really showcase how welcoming and friendly the entire yoyo community seems to be.