So problem solved…for anyone else having trouble…I just shortened the string after hearing that it shouldnt go up more than half way in “how to be a player volume 2” with the sound turned on this time 
totally fixed it. as a very new (less than a month) id say the love is only slightly harder to throw than a bearing king. idk about tricks, but the throw isnt too difficult once the string was shortened 3-4 inches.