First top

ok ive been into skill toys just wondering should i get a bearing top first? of fixed tip?

One of each ;D
Bearing tops seem to be easier for beginners, but they can be kind of a pain to maintain.
Fixed tops can be frustrating because there is so little time to pull of a trick (at first), but the fundamentals will take you far, grasshopper.
So yeah, both ;D

Both is the way to go

but would u recommend more the spintastics galiator of the duncan ripcord?

or the spintastics sidewinder?

I guess the Gladiator because of the metal tip - more durable. I’m still partial to the Rip Cord though, I learned a lot of stuff on it.